Traits to look for when dating
Think about the spiritual aspect of your relationship: Do you want someone who will attend church with you every Sunday? Or does he drive you crazy because he never stops talking—or doesn’t share enough? One afternoon, “Brandon” and I drove to a football game in a city nearly three hours away and he was completely silent throughout the drive, the game and halftime! How well do your personalities and temperaments mesh? If you’re exclusive as a couple and he dates someone behind your back, that’s dishonest.
The description here looks back across many faithful seasons in the life of a virtuous Verse 11: “The heart of her husband trusts in her.” He is never worried about her faithfulness to him.
He never has to wonder if she is using their money in dishonest or foolish ways.
Verse 12: “She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” Verse 23: “Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land.” It seems odd that right in the middle of this passage about the woman who fears the Lord, there’s a verse about the husband.
But it makes a point about the woman’s commitment to her husband.
They're just looking for their perfect match: a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs. and smart Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty to men after high school. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment (like grabbing him by the shirt collar and pulling him into the bedroom before he goes to work for some morning fun?
Is she the girl next door with gorgeous good looks and double-Ds? Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship.
Maybe, like me, you’ve dated men who are always too busy, and now you want someone who’s willing to make time for a quality relationship.
I know one quality I want in a man is someone who has the courage to step up and pursue me, not just “hang out” and keep me guessing as to whether we’re really dating or just friends.
As you are getting to know someone who would be a potential spouse, consider if the person is honest and trustworthy.