(Unless, of course both people want it, in which case please be thankful for compatible sexual partners =D).

The thing with oral sex, and well pretty much any good sex, is that the goal is for both people to be comfortable and pleasured.

If he’s really nice it’ll be a gentle nudge and not a shove; he won’t say, assuming you find it hot, ‘Suck my dick’ (though if you do find it hot, more power to you and, I imagine, less frequent coitus interruptus to have the conversation that porn is not real life).

It’s India, so we’ve got, you know, those “safety issues”, which means that you’re likely to only speak to new men who are friends of friends. But what I’m finding is that the conversations in my rarefied, fairly progressive friendship circles eventually land upon and mull over the question: Where are all the interesting, dateable men?

But rather than speaking to me – or even dancing with me – they wanted to buy me drinks. – a blog from San Francisco chronicling Elise Moreno’s efforts to break her relationship pattern as a ‘serial monogamist’ by going on 100 summer dates with 100 different men. When I finally pin down the elusive Alice for an email interview, I am quick to ask her about safety – no doubt betraying my own small town misconceptions about living in Delhi. “Many people do worry, but I don’t think these people fully understand the Internet, me, or the contemporary world.

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So, the other day, I was having a chat with some of my single lady friends, and of course the talk came down to the dearth of good men and then it led, inevitably, to how to deal with the endless dry spells we all have to put up with, and from there to the trials and travails of trying to get laid while single. If you’re unlucky, like I once was, he will literally try and hold your head in his crotch until you swear at him and throw him out.

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